The Secret Bond
I call Secret Bond a special feeling. It´s secret because:
1. We don´t know what it is, yet we can feel it and be very influenced by its effects
2. We don´t quite understand it, so too easily get lost and make a bad use of it
3. Once we do understand and master it, our lifes are deeply changed by it. But then we can´t easily communicate it to others
The Secret Bond is our connection with inner energies. Is a way to deeply go into desire and love. But, as a surfer who must keep his balance to go with the wave, we must understand its energy to become one with it and not be carried away by it.
So, when we feel it, and through our life we become tired of being pullled away by impulsive love, lust an dohter passions, then we may start going into an entirely new direction. For that directin we need to be very sincere with ourselves and cautious.
If you want to start this journey, you have to understand the nature of this inner Bond.
It´s a metaestable equilibrium. Stable equilibrium is found for example in the bottom of a hole. An object can´t fall anymore, but energy is not present there either.
Metastable equilibrium is for example a rock on top of a mountain. It is balancing and may fall anytime. So it is not safe. But it has potential energy
Being carried away by Secret Bond energy, usually takes two possible roads: lust or falling in love.
Lust is a way towards stable equilibrium, because it drains us of energy in time. Also falling in love has the same effect.
Either sex becomes a drug, which makes us want more intense and new experiences, going away of our center more and more. Or through the promise of eternal love we become jealous and possesive, and demanding endlessly proofs of love and fidelity.
Sex and falling in love are very good! But if they are just ruling our self without measure, they become ways of draining us. Maybe it´s only inevitable we have to experience this for ourselves. Then we may become tired of them both. It definitely does not mean we can´t love, fall in love or enjoy sex anymore!
It means that we can respect a very subtle and profounf force within us, become cautious and find a new way of being in deep connection with an inner source of endless energy.
Becoming meditative.
We´ll continue later with these ideas
